tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post6801300129303878937..comments2023-09-19T05:21:10.007-07:00Comments on Ecce Fiat: How the suffering of divorce has helped me through the suffering of infertility Part IAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00145429070443201781noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-35061135557598465992014-04-27T20:31:26.209-07:002014-04-27T20:31:26.209-07:00Thank you for sharing your story!! I look forward...Thank you for sharing your story!! I look forward to reading part II!All in His Perfect Timinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00300978285191861049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-66568076942962034202014-04-24T05:45:09.202-07:002014-04-24T05:45:09.202-07:00Yeah, it wasn't easy to share at all and it is...Yeah, it wasn't easy to share at all and it is so easy to avoid our burdens. I did this for many years, but I found that healing only comes through sharing your cross with others. This is the first time I have given so much detail. I am passionate about helping those adult children of divorce heal and I am passionate helping infertile couples cope with the cross they have been given. So I thought it was time to start sharing. If you or anyone you know is struggling with the cross of being an adult child of divorce I am happy to be a listening ear/ share the graces of healing I have been given too. I have only shared a fraction of how I have been healed in this post. So if you or anyone reading this want to reach me to talk about these experiences, then please email Mr. M at eccefiat11@gmail.com. It can be anonymous the entire way through. Blessings and prayers to all children of divorce who read this!Mr.Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-51939216987998306822014-04-23T19:53:10.045-07:002014-04-23T19:53:10.045-07:00I can't imagine that this was easy to share, b...I can't imagine that this was easy to share, but I'm thankful that you are. As you say, a lot of people never face or deal with this pain, even though so many have experienced it. Catholic Mutthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10254315970336710941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-62052833172176091762014-04-23T09:05:23.188-07:002014-04-23T09:05:23.188-07:00Sometime it is not what you have done so much as w...Sometime it is not what you have done so much as what you do next. Thanks once again for the both of you sharing! DM + AM https://www.blogger.com/profile/16375817644349023976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-86587899556268685192014-04-23T05:26:20.895-07:002014-04-23T05:26:20.895-07:00I love what you say: "We pray to not have to ...I love what you say: "We pray to not have to learn the lessons the hard way (because we chose sin) . . . to listen to God the first time so that we do not cause unnecessary harm" and "to not . . . pray for a 'king' we don't need." Amen - great ways of putting it. In addition to the hurt I caused myself, I often think of all the hurt I have caused innumerable people during those wreckless years of my life. Although I have learned from it, it is far better to never have fallen. I regret it because I left the world a worse place during those years. I pray for those unfortunate victims of my sin everyday. God have mercy on them for it is only He working through the good works of others that can rewrite our past transgressions. I pray He does that in everyone's life I helped to mess up. May He write straight with crooked lines.Mr. Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-7748967372687996572014-04-22T18:40:33.642-07:002014-04-22T18:40:33.642-07:00Thankfully if people turn to God during/after suff...Thankfully if people turn to God during/after suffering God has a way of redeeming it... Just so sorry that you had to go through tough times... So often we pray to not have to learn lessons the hard way (because we chose sin)... to listen to God the first time so that we do not cause unnecessary harm... to not have to walk in the desert for 40 years or pray for a "king" we don't need... You know. Yet it is hard to pray this because not all hard times are punishment. Hard times came to Jesus but brought a greater good for us who put our faith in him. <br /><br />Thank you for your profound writing. You two make a great team. We hope that many read your blog and get encouraged by your openness to share. DM + AM https://www.blogger.com/profile/16375817644349023976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-52026575718000664822014-04-22T17:39:22.296-07:002014-04-22T17:39:22.296-07:00Thanks. I pray my story can relate to you in the e...Thanks. I pray my story can relate to you in the end! One more day until the conclusion (although I could write a whole book about the suffering of divorce and infertility!)Mr. Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-41219627373272174322014-04-22T17:37:43.048-07:002014-04-22T17:37:43.048-07:00Amy, thanks for your comment. Amen! You are such a...Amy, thanks for your comment. Amen! You are such a witness to me and my wife. Thank you for your faithful suffering! This shared cross we embrace!!!Mr. Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-65175846120758646742014-04-22T17:35:13.744-07:002014-04-22T17:35:13.744-07:00Thanks for your kind words. Yeah it was nerve wrac...Thanks for your kind words. Yeah it was nerve wracking share this stuff. I have never shared so much detail but I think it is important to get this stuff out. I pray it is blessing for you!Mr. Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-43692895338463707012014-04-22T17:34:26.134-07:002014-04-22T17:34:26.134-07:00Haha sorry about that . . . you will just have to...Haha sorry about that . . . you will just have to wait one more day I promise! The conclusion is coming . . . thanks for the kind words.Mr. Mhttp://www.eccefiat11.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-939846869808639692014-04-22T10:29:01.154-07:002014-04-22T10:29:01.154-07:00thank you for sharing this, i cant imagine all you...thank you for sharing this, i cant imagine all you went through, but Im looking forward to reading more...Mike Brummondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15276797377377334510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-68311327123807958172014-04-22T09:28:09.408-07:002014-04-22T09:28:09.408-07:00Really looking forward to reading the conclusion!!...Really looking forward to reading the conclusion!! You left us hanging, Mr. M!Stephanie @ Blessed to Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15432625948200484509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-31236235231588037352014-04-22T08:26:47.747-07:002014-04-22T08:26:47.747-07:00I'm enjoying this, as well, and already I firm...I'm enjoying this, as well, and already I firmly agree that suffering upon suffering makes the peace and joy more palpable. I, too, suffered what I consider a much greater cross than infertility, and it has helped me to suffer both in a much better, often *easier* way.Amy @ This Cross I Embracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04766112822487858490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-42891604517566779432014-04-22T07:16:50.902-07:002014-04-22T07:16:50.902-07:00Looking forward to Part II! Thanks for being brave...Looking forward to Part II! Thanks for being brave enough to share this.MamaHolihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11246015208551792427noreply@blogger.com