tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post8927467504487927864..comments2023-09-19T05:21:10.007-07:00Comments on Ecce Fiat: near occasions of sinAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00145429070443201781noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-87985821179183582052014-11-13T19:42:52.935-08:002014-11-13T19:42:52.935-08:00That is a tough one for sure. It's so easy to ...That is a tough one for sure. It's so easy to say that we shouldn't compare ourselves to others, but so hard not to, especially when they are where we would be had our lives gone according to our plan. I think for me, part of being less jealous has involved me letting go of my own plan for my life, and just trying to live what I have. It still really hurts sometimes to see others with what I have always wanted, but it helps, at least for me. I know it's different for everyone!Catholic Mutthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10254315970336710941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1354490057851633467.post-2804362494870868112014-11-13T08:20:47.314-08:002014-11-13T08:20:47.314-08:00The more you give it up the less of a sting it has...The more you give it up the less of a sting it has. It is not an overnight miracle, but a process over time. There are times that the intense sting returns, but it gets easier to deal with because you learn to just offer it up. When I finally handed infertility over the God, if made this process much quicker. I still desire children and have hope that one day it will happen, but it will be in God's time. Even if it isn't God's will I am actively making a decision to trust in his will for my life... As with anything, there's always a process of detachment that we will go through, whether it is infertility or something else...detachment always hurts but less over time.... At least this is my experienceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com